I've been up all night the last 3 nights with Teddy and it's all my fault. He is happy during the day but then he's been up 10+ times a night screaming. It's a combination of a few bad habits all rolled up together. Here are my problems:
1. I've been nursing exclusively, and my right boob stopped making milk almost completely (less than 1 ounce a day)
2. Teddy hates bottles, binkies, basically he's just a boob man.
3. For the first 4 months of his life, he was sleeping in our room in his pack n play next to our bed. Whenever he would cry, I would be afraid he's wake Ricky or Mark, and immediately pick him up in my sleep and put him to my breast - without looking at the clock to see if it was feeding time. So as a result, when he wakes up in the middle of the night, he wants boobie to put him back to sleep - even if he's not hungry. Just a comfort thing.
4. I'm a stay at home mother, and would just nurse on demand. On demand has turned into every 1.5 hours and it's driving me nutts. He nurses for 5 minutes and has basically brought my milk supply down. He is snacking all day long. (my baby is very chubby so loves to eat).
5. He has very bad eczema all over his body - gotta be itchy! He scratches all the time. He has it on his head, and pulls his hair and scratches and screams about it. I tell him to stop pulling his hair but not sure if he understands me..... so fun
6. He loves to roll, but doesn't know how to get back - he gets stuck and cries his head off until someone comes in and helps him get back. The more he cries, the hotter he becomes - and then he gets more eczema!!! Aaaaaaack!!!
So I took Teddy to the doctor this morning to make sure all is well - and that he doesn't have an ear infection or any other problems causing him to be up all night. I also called my lactation consultant at the hospital. Basically, this is my game plan:
1. Feed every 3 hours, no less. If he seems like he needs more, give him a bottle after nursing.
2. I need to pump. The lactation consultant and pediatrician think my left boob went down in production as well. If he eats every 1.5 hours, it's not enough. Pediatrician suggests formula because it's thicker and stays in the tummy longer. The lactation consultant wants me to give pumped milk as the supplement and refuses to say the word "formula." heehehe...
3. He has to cry. The pediatrician and one of my favorite nurses told me to let him cry and that they let their own kids cry for hours at this age. It's just hard to hear....
Well, I nursed him at noon and gave him 2 ounces of formula in a bottle and he took it. I also put him in the crib and let him cry. I had to go in there twice to give him a binky suggestively and I let him cry. He is now fast asleep. YAY!!! Now let's see how tonight goes.
Am seriously feeling like I'm drunk....so out of it. I gave Ricky a sippy cup with no cover on it....